Exploring Erotic Energy As A Tool For Spiritual Enlightenment
+ 6 Simple Ways To Awaken The Erotic Self.
Often when I tell people “I am an Erotic Goddess”, their first response is either “You must be a freak, horny all the time, or have lots of sex”, (and I wish!) and most people book my “Erotic Reiki Sessions” because they believe the word “Erotic or “Erotic Goddess” is synonymous to sex or sexual activities,
I think I need to unpack this… So today, I am writing a whole discourse to bear it all out.
Starting with…
Who is an Erotic Goddess?
An Erotic Goddess is a woman ordained with wisdom & spiritual gifts and equipped with the creative abilities & professional skills to guide and support others through their erotic evolution.
What is Erotic Evolution?
Erotic evolution encompasses a multifaceted journey towards self-discovery, liberation, and fulfillment.
In this discourse, we unravel the layers of erotic evolution, explaining the pathways to awakening the erotic energy within the self.
Understanding Erotic Evolution:
Erotic evolution is not confined to carnal desires or fleeting pleasures; it is a dynamic process of growth, transformation, and integration.
At its core, eroticism embodies the intricate interplay of sensuality, intimacy, and authenticity.
It transcends societal taboos and cultural constructs, inviting individuals to embrace their innate desires and explore the depths of their being.
The exploration of eroticism transcends mere physicality; it delves into the realms of consciousness, emotion, and spirituality.
If you ask me in simple English, I’d say
Erotic Evolution refers to the gradual and consistent improvement, change & development of one’s perspectives, understanding, or experience of Erotic energy and an increase in one’s capacity to feel, experience, and use Erotic energy to serve one’s highest good.
What is Erotic Energy?
Erotic energy connects us to the energy of life. It is our very connection to abundant life-giving energy that fuels our capacity to feel and experience the openness of our hearts and the creativity of our spirit in abundant and easy ways.
Derived from the word “Eros” Erotic energy is our connection to life itself. Think about your capacity to love and have soul-freeing sex, or your capacity to create the life of your dreams, achieve the goals your heart yearns for, and communicate and share unconditional love with your friends, family & loved ones. This is Erotic Energy.
The erotic energy allows us to connect to all things nature & divine, be grounded to the earth’s energy, expanded like the vibrant spaciousness of air, be nourished and cleansed like water, and ignited and strengthened like fire to create a life of meaning and fulfillment through these elemental connections.
This is the awakening and alignment with God’s consciousness within all things that breathe.
So, how do we connect to eros and thereby connect to our erotic selves?
We connect to eros by being in touch with the life force running through our bodies. Breath, stillness, and awareness lead us here.
We connect to eros by being in touch with the spiritual force of all life that lives in our hearts and souls and runs deeper than the eye can see.
We connect to eros by re-wilding, seeking solitude, connecting to nature (earth, air, water, fire), beauty, and creativity, speaking our truth, living from our hearts, and finding joy when we witness others doing the same.
Once we do this, the erotic self emerges, evolves, and thrives.
The emerging, evolving, thriving erotic self supports us to experience a life that is full not just the parts of life that are made of ease and comfort, but also the parts made of difficulty, darkness, and discomfort.
And it empowers us to be strengthened and transformed through experiencing this full spectrum.
The erotic self helps us to embrace the triumphs and the setbacks; the joy and the pain; the receiving and the loss; the known and the unknown.
To become erotic is to become part of the unbreakable threads of unconditional love woven together over all of time and connecting us to the very source of life.
The Awakening of the Erotic Self:
To awaken the erotic self is to embark on a profound voyage of self-exploration and acceptance. It requires courage, vulnerability, and a willingness to challenge preconceived notions.
Here are some pathways to facilitate the awakening of the erotic self:
Cultivating Self-Awareness:
The journey towards erotic awakening begins with self-awareness. By cultivating mindfulness and introspection, individuals can uncover their deepest desires, fears, and inhibitions. This process entails embracing both the light and shadow aspects of the self, fostering a sense of wholeness and authenticity.
Embracing Sensuality:
Sensuality serves as a gateway to the erotic realm, inviting individuals to engage with their senses fully. Whether through touch, taste, scent, or sound, embracing sensuality awakens dormant desires and fosters a deeper connection to the present moment. By indulging in sensory experiences, individuals can tap into the innate pleasure of being alive.
Honoring Vulnerability:
Vulnerability lies at the heart of erotic evolution, catalyzing intimacy and connection. To awaken the erotic self, one must be willing to embrace vulnerability and relinquish the armor of self-protection. This requires open communication, trust, and a willingness to be seen and accepted in all one's authenticity.
Exploring Fantasies and Desires:
Fantasies and desires are integral aspects of the erotic psyche, offering glimpses into the subconscious mind and unlocking hidden potentials. By exploring and embracing their fantasies, individuals can expand their erotic repertoire and cultivate a greater sense of self-acceptance and liberation.
Cultivating Erotic Intelligence:
Erotic intelligence encompasses a deep understanding of one's desires, boundaries, and preferences, as well as those of their partners. By cultivating erotic intelligence, individuals can navigate intimate relationships with empathy, authenticity, and mutual respect, fostering deeper connections and fulfilling experiences.
Embracing Sacred Sexuality:
Sacred sexuality transcends mere physical gratification; it is a spiritual practice that honors the divine within oneself and others. By embracing sacred sexuality, individuals can elevate their intimate experiences to a higher plane of consciousness, fostering union, ecstasy, and transcendence.
The awakening of the erotic self is a transformative journey that unfolds with patience, curiosity, and self-love. It is a journey of liberation, authenticity, and connection—an invitation to embrace the full spectrum of human experience. Through self-awareness, sensuality, vulnerability, and exploration, individuals can unlock the boundless potential of their erotic selves, embracing their desires with courage and reverence. In the sacred dance of erotic evolution, we discover not only the ecstasy of the moment but also the infinite depths of our being.
Being-ness is the state of becoming one with all things, structures, and systems in existence.
Speaking of systems, did you know that “Building and Cultivating communication and pleasure within a relationship” is a system?
Took me a while to realize that. And journeying through my erotic self awakened that realization. Without cultivating a stable and authentic erotic identity, it’s almost impossible to succeed with this system.
So what does erotic awakening and evolution within a relationship look like and how can couples support each other to awaken, cultivate, and align their erotic essence?