Welcome to the second Pathway.
Last week, I shared the first pathway which for me was the very beginning of all the erotic superpower within me.
In case you missed it you can read PATHWAY 1 here.
Awareness is a powerful step in any personal development process. It forces us to see beyond what we thought or have been taught possible.
However, Awareness alone doesn’t take us to the endless possibilities that exist within us.
As we begin to become more aware we transition into a deeper connection with our senses.
And so today, I want to share with you the second pathway to awakening the Erotic self.
A lot of people start on the first pathway but soon they find themselves stuck. Stuck with consuming and collecting that they do not allow time for their bodies to process all of this information.
So it’s like they are still operating on a mind-level Awareness. And so no lasting changes or change can be made.
To ignite change, we must take awareness down from the lower base or level of the mind to a deeper and higher level of awareness that can only ever be found in the body.
So the formula is:
Psychological breakthrough + Embodiment = Transformation.
For me, the first Awareness was understanding that my desire or sexual fantasy to be tied up during sex was a subconscious request to soften and surrender into life.
So how did I take that psychological awareness into Embodiment?
By cultivating a relationship with my senses. Listening to every feeling and what it’s trying to convey.
This is where the magic starts and we begin to notice a pattern of what doesn’t feel good vs what does and make a decision to follow the trail of our feel-good. Because this is where the body unleashes its wisdom.
The only language the body understands is ease. Feel good, pleasure…
For a lot of people, the only feel-good pattern they are aware of is during sex. And this can make it difficult to transcend that lower expression of pleasure into a more abundant and free-flowing expression.
Now I must drop this in:
Sexual Energy is not the same as Erotic Energy.
I’ll expatiate.
All my life until 2023, I also subscribed to the belief that “Sex Energy” is our life force energy and the energy of creation.
But at this moment, I have a different awakening and awareness.
I believe Sex energy is just pure physical energy. Not our Life force energy per se. However, there is something bigger that cocoon sex energy that happens to be the Life force energy itself.
Erotic Energy!
Everything is energy… And I believe “Language” is the first most important form of energy because it’s directly tied to our “words”.
“Sex” is energy but a biological representation of this energy we talk about. The result of something much more ethereal or grande such as “Erotism”.
This energy can be found solely traveling between “The root chakra” our center of Identity, desire, and Stability. No wonder Our gender (the male/female sex) is the biggest most important identity we will take on in this physical plane.
and our “Sacral Chakra” our center of feeling, creation, and pleasure.
“Erotism” however I believe represents the very energy of creation itself. The energy that births all things, not physically, but from the very first point of creating anything ethereal!
This energy is found within all of our 7 Main Chakras, starting from the 3 physical chakras
Root- Center of Identity, Belonging, Security & Stability
Sacral- Center of Creativity, Pleasure, Feeling, and Movement
Solar Plexus- Center of Will, Power, Strength, Emotions
Cutting through the intersecting chakra
Heart- Center of Receptivity, Love, Openness, Magnetism and all things Attraction
And up through and into the 3 Etheral/Spiritual Chakras
Throat- Self-Expression, Communication
Third Eye- Understanding, Perception, Intuition, Higher Learning
Crown - Divinity, Oneness, Connection to Source, and All energy or things in existence.
This is exactly what intersects Sexuality and Spirituality making it two sides of one single coin.
However, oftentimes, we merely cascade on the lower representation or vibration of this energy and this can look like this:
A hyper-sexual nature
Frequent Sexual activities solely for orgasm, release, or chasing a high or an escape
Masturbation addiction
Pornography addiction etc.
Shutting down of the female body and pleasure which is only evident in the Erotic flow of the woman’s body.
and many more… maybe you are already thinking of some.
Not that there is something wrong in having sex or self-pleasing every day, the question is “To what end?” and “What does it leave us with and what does it take away from us?”.
Also depending on our choice of energy identification/role, (especially in our relationships) what am I embodying the most?
When I had my health challenge, it was a reminder from my body and spirit to bring alignment to which of these two prominent energies I was choosing to embody.
Energy exists in folds. Two folds to be precise.
Masculine
Feminine
Sex energy is a masculine expression of energy- since this energy is all about the physicality of life. It’s about the physiology of connection, pleasure, and creation. The doing energy.
Erotic energy, on the other hand, is a Feminine Expression of energy- more about the spirituality of life. It’s about the deep, mystical, can’t explain how it came to be but I can tell, see, sense, hear, or feel it kind of connection, pleasure, and creation. The seeking pleasure, reveling in and luxuriating life. The being energy.
This is where sensuality is felt and experienced. And this is the second pathway we must journey to awaken our long lost Erotic self.
Especially as women.
This is one of the reasons I am pivoting my erotic work towards supporting women who feel shut down in their bodies, and their erotic essence to reawaken and come back home to the embodiment of this powerful portal within them.
It’s been shut down for far too long and our planet is now suffering it.
As a woman who has experienced the same and even been fooled into using this energy in ways that didn’t serve me so much but the patriarchal world I live in.
I am now intending to commit my erotic work to support women to reawaken and take up space unapologetically in their erotic essence and create life as it feels good for them.
So How do we make this work?
We have to come back to feeling deeply and luxuriate in the sensuality of life.
Think about our 5 senses. They are incredible portals to awaken the Erotic self.
Touch, taste, smell, sight, sound. We must start to re-explore these in a way that serves pleasure in our bodies without the need to attach it to anything other than this.
This unlocks our 6th sense which is the most potent tool for creating life on our terms. Period!
When I had my health challenge, I couldn’t do anything sexual. There was no partner to play with, no energy or even desire to watch anything. Even if it was present, my fragile frail body didn’t desire all the pounding and banging.
All I could do was feel my way through all the ups and downs, highs and lows, and the incredibly unstable burst of chi through me.
In that experience, I realized the magical power of shifting into the Erotic self through movement and being.
This realization and journey back to the body through sensual exploration is what I want to show as many women who are ready to retrace their steps back and awaken their erotic selves so they can:
wake up every day full of incredible vital energy,
ooze of sex appeal
Manifest with the utmost speed
Feel more pleasure in their body
Become an orgasmic powerhouse, not just during sex but every single moment of life
Feel more whole, and content and unlock their life’s vision and purpose
Unlock deep-rooted love within and outside
Feel more confident and empowered in their body
Live and create life from a deeply rooted feminine energy
Balance and harmonize their masculine and feminine energy
Awaken a powerful connection with their intuition and inner wise guide
Create life on their terms
and many more…
The potential is endless.
Thank you for moving through Pathway 2 with me. I enjoyed writing this for you and I hope you did enjoy reading it. It’ll make my heart glad to know you did. If you feel drawn to it, please leave a ❤️ and I’ll see you next week for a new Pathway.
My love always.
Joy.